All those wasted and squandered years when I did nothing but go around looking inside myself until I ended up alone even though I was surrounded by people. But I paid attention only to what was happenstance about them - not their true selves.

Sigrid Undset
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When you are surrounded by people but you don’t take the time to look at them as people, you end up alone. You waste your time looking inside yourself instead of outside yourself to see the real person.

Source: Marta Oulie: A Novel Of Betrayal

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